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Think of Jesus as Your Mom


Hannah

Easter 6C Gospel: John 14:23-29
May 13, 2007, Mother’s Day

In the reading today from John 14, Jesus and his disciples are preparing for Jesus to return to his Father in heaven. Jesus wants to make sure that he has taught his disciples everything about God and how to live in the way that God wants them to live. Jesus only has a little time to teach them all of this knowledge.

 This story made me think of my parents, and how everybody’s parents have only 18 years to take a newborn baby and raise them into a young adult and teach them absolutely everything about life and make them ready to live on their own and one day have their own lives and their own children. If you have kids you know what a huge task this is.

 When you are growing up, from the time you are little to when you are a teenager, your parents are constantly giving you advice on everything from what to wear on your first day of kindergarten to what classes to take in high school. And then there are the little life lessons that you hear a million times and couldn’t possibly forget.

 When you are a kid everyone is always telling you, “Never talk to strangers.” When I was little, I heard this line so many times that I think I might have taken it a bit too literally. I’m sure you all know what a shy kid I was growing up. I guess I figured that anyone I didn’t know real well must be a stranger, and that I probably shouldn’t be talking to them. (I’m sure you all know who you are.)

Another thing I heard a lot when I was really little was “If you ever see a gun, don’t touch it. Get an adult right away.” When I was 3, I found a gun while taking a walk with my family. I was really upset - kinda traumatized - and I ran right over to my mom and told her. I brought her to the place where I had found the gun and my parents checked it out. It turned out to be only a plastic toy gun. I felt a little foolish, but my parents praised me for remembering what I had been taught.

When I was a little older, my mom taught me another important lesson. She said that I should “practice at being the person that I want to be when I grow up.” (No, that doesn’t mean practice at being a firefighter or a dentist. It’s about character. The kind of person you want to be.) I think about this a lot when I am faced with a decision. When I’m at the mall, and I see someone drop something and keep walking, I think to myself, “Should I pick that up and chase that person down? Or should I keep walking because it’s easier? Is that the kind of person I want to be? The kind who only does what’s easiest? Who always takes the path of the least resistance, and never stops to help others?”

Maybe it’s a woman pushing a baby carriage and the baby tosses the bottle on the floor. Sure, that lady’s probably got 18 more at home and probably won’t miss it, but what have I got to lose? I’ll burn a couple calories and probably look like a fool running through the mall to catch up with her. But then I can feel good about myself knowing that I helped someone. And the person that I want to be when I grow up helps people whenever it is possible.

Back to Jesus. Think of Jesus as your mom, if that’s not too sacrilegious. My mom said that was sacrilegious. (I thought she would have taken it as a compliment!) Actually, in the 14th century, an English mystic named Julian of Norwich referred to Jesus as “Jesus our mother who feeds us with his body and blood.” So there. Anyway, think of Jesus as your mom and the disciples as you. When Jesus first came to the disciples, they didn’t know a whole lot about the ways of God. He had to teach them the way your parents taught you, everything about God and the way that God wants his people to live, in only a short time. And there was a WHOLE LOT to teach about God. (If you haven’t noticed, He’s kind of a big deal). As Jesus was preparing for his return to the Father, he had to cram in all the important information. Obviously Jesus wasn’t telling his disciples to look both ways before crossing the street but he told them other really important knowledge, like that every time they did something good for someone, they were doing it for him. And that there was no one on this earth that was too low for them to serve.

When you leave home and go to college, and then out into the world to start your own life and have your own family, your parents aren’t gone. They are still around and you can go visit them or call them if you need guidance or just want to talk. (Or you don’t know how to change a diaper.) Like our parents, Jesus wasn’t really gone either. 3 days after his crucifixion, he rose from the dead. The disciples got to visit with him for a little while before he went to heaven to be with God. Even after he went to heaven, the disciples could call him too; on the prayer phone, if you will.

For the disciples of the past, and for us, the modern disciples of today, Jesus was always, and still is, there to help. And with Jesus, you don’t have to pay roaming charges.

Amen.

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